Helping you say the things that haven't been said and find the doorways to connection that are here and hidden.
Naming the Elephant
a FREE Dynamic Interactive Course
in the Art of Listening and Transformational Relating
Naming the Elephant
Develop your Listening Skills
Get to know each other on a deeper level
Build your Sense of Team and togetherness
Move through the barriers to deeper Love, truth and Trust
Say the things that haven't been said and unburden yourself and others from lies, secrets and unexpressed emotion.
Opening the door to bring people closer to each other and God through the Art of Listening and Transformational Relating
What's included in the Naming the Elephant Course?
10 QUESTIONS FOR DEEPER CONNECTION
Mini-Book
A structured Practice you can do with your partner to get to know each other deeper and build trust and connection
7 topics for connection and understanding including:
Appreciation
Insecurities
Barriers
Fears
Admirations
Higher Calling
THE ART OF LISTENING
Guided Video Process
A structured listening Practice you can do with your partner
Learn how to take turns in dialogue and practice whole-body listening.
Give your partner the feeling of being heard
Reduce the potential for triggering and overwhelm
EMPTYING OUT
Guided Video Process
A guided process to get here and clear so you're here and clear enough to hear
Learn how to free yourself from the internal and external noise so you can be present with yourself and your partner
Support yourself to move through and beyond triggering and overwhelm
LITTLE POISONS
2 Mini-Books
5 Barriers to Love and Truth in Relationship (and what to do about them)
There are many poisonous sprits which can and do take root in our hearts and minds, keeping us from bringing more love, connection and intimacy into our relationships.
Includes a Spotlight Mini-Book on Cleverness and Control. The hubris of thinking, believing and acting as if we know everything and everyone else is wrong.
Learn all about this Block and 4 others as well as how to overcome them so you can start freeing yourself from these little poisons of interpersonal dynamics.
THE ALLIANCE
Mini-Course
UNLOCK THE SECRET TO NEXT-LEVEL REALTIONSHIP WITH GOD AND OTHERS.
Practical steps to unlocking the full potential for Connection, Alignment, Power and Fulfilment in your relationship with God and others.
Learn what Alliance is, why it is absolutely essential and how to cultivate it for your spiritual life, work and relationships.
Take home 4 simple steps you can take today to help you come closer to your partner (or prepare for the ideal one) and God
If a meaningful, fulfilling and loving relationships is the treasure you seek, Alliance is the key that opens it.
Available through our online community growth-space
NAMING THE ELEPHANT
About us
Sam-Edward
Spiritual + Relationship Support for individuals and couples.
Gestalt Therapy informed + Christianity based
Heal your Heart | Refine your gifts | Live your calling
Helping Mr & Mrs Right get together, stay together and grow together - through the power of Alliance-based relating.
B. Education.
Grad. Dip Gestalt Therapy.
Cert. Meditation.
The Magic Carpet method.
Body-fullness practice.
Prayer support.
Helen-Marissa
Professional Development for individuals | Relationship support for couples
Therapeutic Alliance Education
Helping professionals create transformation, rapport and understanding through deep Attunement and Alliance
B. Counselling
Cert Mental Health
Dip Education
Transformational Coaching
Liminal Processing
I hlep Mr and Mrs Right get together, grow together and stay together
There is a pathway beyond perfectionism, performance and pressure to effortless action and providential grace. This way is called Simplicity.
Are you walking that path?
I am a fool for love.
My relationship life has often felt like a blind-folded assault course through challenging terrains with a fish stuck in my mouth.
I mean, it's been rough - and yet I never lost hope that I would find the love I was looking for one day.
My insecurities, rebellious nature - mixed with some rough knocks and unaddressed issues - led me to take a bunch of shit really personally and hide my true self and desires of my heart down a dark alley of alcohol addiction, new-age nonsense and destructive relationships.
I have had many well-meaning but failed relationships, many ill-advised soul-sucking "encounters" ahem, and struggled not only romantically but with friends and family.
In short, while relationships have always been so important to me - I've also sucked at them.
A pivotal time of my life was when I did three things: study Gestalt Therapy, open my heart to Christ and get real with myself and what mattered most to me.
A long story short, in the space of a year I had overcome my chemical addictions, found God, commitment my life to my true purpose AND surprise of all surprises - found my Mrs Right.
My life is both cautionary tale and heroes journey. I have a found a path through unfulfilling, chronically dysfunctional relationships to stable, loving, comitted realtionship - with myself, my partner and my God.
There is a way through the maze presented to us by our cultural upbringing, personal demons and delusional fantasies, and I'm here to help other people find it - as I have.
I create spaces & opportunities for spiritually minded people to step into their calling; heal the wounds of the past & embody their natural way.".
There is a pathway beyond perfectionism, performance and pressure to effortless action and providential grace. This way is called Simplicity.
Are you walking that path?
Through my challenges of addiction, trauma, and ruptured relationships, I discovered that true healing lies in a spiritual alliance to God, practical action and compassion.
At my lowest point, despite rigorous self-help efforts and strict health regimens, I found no path forward. It was in this hopelessness that God's grace for a way into my life and I received a way with his guidance.
My rock bottom taught me the transformational power and truth that is available when we admit have had enough pain, to be humble enough to call for help.
I now create spaces, resources and coaching for others to move through the blocks of their past and pain and find their natural way into the light.
For over 20 years, I have been in the helping industry, where I have helped families, children, and individuals to understanding themselves, embracing wholeness, and creating lives they love.
My approach is rooted in spiritual principles, helping individuals and couples to clarify their deep motivations, attune, align, and make an alliance with truth. The processes I provide illuminate the present and clears the past, paving the way for a future that calls them into wholeness.
My support comes from my lived experience and over 20 ears of practice, I use a compassionate, relational and intuitive process which integrates coaching, spiritual discernment with guided journeys.
I combine spiritual principles with insights from the Gospel, psychology, traditional nutrition, metaphysics and human development.
This is not my work, it is my calling and I am honoured and fulfilled to be invited to support the beautiful: 'coming-home process'.
Qualifications
B. Counselling
Cert Mental Health
Dip Education
Transformational Coaching
Liminal Processing
I guide spiritual seekers to step into their Sacred Calling; heal the wounds of the past & embody their natural way.
We are all purposefully and uniquely designed. By tapping into this design, we gain a "cheat sheet" for more self-acceptance, freedom, and true direction in life.
Through countless dark nights of the soul, extensive study, and mastery, I discovered that we possess the wisdom within to actualise our natural way. I learned the path to inner wisdom and I find help others do the same an honour.
For over 20 years, I have supported and nurtured individuals to know themselves deeply, embrace their wholeness, heal and create lives they love.
My approach is relational and intuitive - integrating coaching with guided journeys. I combine principles and processes from psychology, spirituality, astrology, human design, shadow work, and human development.
Testimonials
What They Say
He’s a magician. That’s what I can say in one word. I had a lot of anger from a divorce and I really felt not in my body or comfortable in my body. I found it hard to open up. I was trying to run away from my own pain and avoid it by being busy busy busy. What Sam really allowed me to do was really sit with the emotions, really sit with the discomfort and move it past my body, rather than creating any stories or toxic narratives around it. He led me through movement, through sound, through holding space to actually share what is emerging.
JANA, UK
Feel super grateful to have the support of Sam at a time when my life was at a low point.
A lot of clarity came through in what was going on at the unconscious level and I was able to shift the energy of it with his space holding. As a result my life is now flowing again and I am most grateful for the support he held for me. If you are wanting someone who holds an energy of integrity, truth, directness, playfulness and inquisitiveness then Sam is your man.
NIC, AUSTRALIA
Email: hello@mail.hereandhidden.com
Site: sam.hereandhidden.com
